Do What You Love

Today’s blog is about your passion, doing what you love.  You'll enjoy life a lot more when you do what you love. But maybe you can't do what you love.  You're too busy, there's no time.

You think about what you'd like to do.  Then you realize all the things you HAVE to do.
Where's the time? You ask yourself. You just can't do what you love because you haven't got the time. A few weeks go by, then a couple of months and you're still as busy as you were, maybe even more busy. Before you know it the year's gone by (another one is ending soon).

And you still haven't done what you enjoy. You haven't made the time to do what you love.  Or maybe you just forgot what you love doing. Maybe if I asked you: "What do you enjoy doing?"
You might say: "I don't know."

You've buried your passion. When you bury your passion you lose your passion for life.
How can you enjoy life if you don't do what you enjoy? You can't.
Instead you go through life doing the things you don't enjoy. Then you get angry or frustrated.
You want more, you want to enjoy life but you tell yourself you can't.

You're too busy.
You now completely believe that you just don't have the time to do the things you want to do.
You believe that you're too busy and don't have the time to enjoy life.
You believe that you can't enjoy your life.
And so the misery continues.

If you're not enjoying life you're not living. You're just struggling. You're just surviving.
That's not a way to live. You should be out enjoying life.
You should be out doing what you love. But you're not.

You lost that passion.
You let it slip away.
You buried it.
Forgot about it.

And now you're too busy. Too busy to bring it back.
You've put the belief that you're too busy on your subconscious mind.
Your subconscious now thinks that you want to be busy.
Being your good servant, your subconscious goes out and finds ways for you to stay busy.
Even if you didn't have anything to do you'd STILL say you have no time.
Because that's what you believe and so the subconscious keeps creating the situations for you to stay busy.

It's a really vicious cycle that you've created. And if you don't break that cycle now - it will only get worse. You'll miss out on all of life's little pleasures because you're too busy.

Stop feeding your subconscious mind the belief that you're busy.
Give your subconscious new information.
Give it new beliefs and follow up with new actions that allow you to enjoy life and live life with passion. Get your subconscious mind to make more time for you.
So that you live with passion and no longer struggle.

I used to think and believe that I was too busy.
I missed out on a lot because I believed I was too busy.
I would miss my girls’ birthday parties, family and friends events, weddings and funerals because I believed I was too busy.

Then one day it hit me.

If I don't stop I'll never enjoy life.
I was busy but I wasn't having any fun.
I tried to change my schedule.
I tried to slow down.
But I still didn't have any more time.

Then I thought, let's try a different approach.

I changed my thinking and took action towards having time and soon after, automatically changed my beliefs. In a matter of months I went from being super busy to having the time to do the things I loved, like catching up on some good reads and playing basketball again.

I didn't change jobs. I didn't get a demotion.
Things just changed around me. I began getting new opportunities, the kind that let me finish up early and leave me with time to enjoy my life.

I discovered my passions. I now do what I enjoy. I no longer think and believe that I'm too busy.
I put new beliefs on my subconscious mind. Gave it new directions and took action towards my goals that's when everything changed.

You too can do the same.
I know you may have some doubts.
And that's really your mind fighting back, trying to keep you busy. But once you change your thinking you'll change your beliefs. When you change your beliefs and take actions towards what you believe your subconscious mind goes out and creates the situations that reflect your new beliefs.

When you do what you love you'll never feel like you're working.
That's because you'll be "busy" enjoying life.
You can have more time and you can live your life with passion.
Yes! you can discover your passion. It's in you - now let it shine.
That passion will drive you to greater success, and you'll have the time to follow your passion.
Start directing your subconscious mind to uncover your passion.
Let your subconscious bring you more time, more freedom and more joy.

Remember You are a powerful person. You have tremendous powers.
Those powers are in your mind and subconscious mind.
Start directing them to create the life you want. Get your subconscious mind to achieve your goals. Feed your mind and subconscious mind the right information and you'll enjoy greater wealth, happiness, confidence and more success.

Remember -- you only get one life and one chance.
 Make the most of it.
Stop defeating yourself, stop limiting yourself.
Stretch Yourself and Create all the success you want and deserve starting now.
I look forward to connecting with you soon.

What are You Waiting For?...

This is the best time to achieve your goals.


There's no time like the present and now is as good as time as any to get what you want done, to finish up those projects, get that job, start that business, and do what you've been putting off for so long.


But when you finally decide to get started, you somehow find a way to put things off once again.
You convince yourself that you can start tomorrow, or that you need everything to be perfect, or just right, or that you won't succeed, that things won't work out and you put off your success once again.
Then a few years go by, maybe more, you take a look and nothing has changed. You haven't accomplished those goals, you haven't finished those projects, and you're still where you were or worse.


You wonder why things don't get better and the reason is simple - you keep procrastinating. You keep putting things off.  And no matter how much you WANT things to change, they just don't.
It's because your mind and subconscious mind are used to procrastinating.  You've programmed yourself to procrastinate - the more you keep doing it the stronger the programming gets until... it's too late.


It's not too late.  Now is the time to stop that programming and change it.


How?


By re-programming your mind and subconscious mind so that you get things done. So that you finish that project, get that job, start that business, meet that right person and achieve the goals you've always wanted to achieve.


You do that by feeding your mind and subconscious mind new information, new thoughts, new beliefs, new thought patterns that allow you to succeed.  The kind that make you want to get up and get things done right away.
 
When you re-direct your mind, when you get it to focus on getting things done you push your subconscious mind in a new direction and you stop giving yourself excuses, and you begin to want to get more done so that you enjoy the success you want.


This re-programming happens quickly and easily. Whenever you think about putting something off, just do something (take action) to start the process, or finish it.  It’s that simple.
 
Take waking up in the morning for example.  Trying standing up and getting out of bed when you want to get up early.  Or, put your alarm, I mean, opportunity clock across the room so it will make you get out of bed.  And when out of bed stay up for 2-3 mins.  This simple reprogram for one week will change your mind to the point where your body will wake you BEFORE your alarm clock goes off!

All you have to do is work with the things you procrastinate on by taking the first action step.  That’s it. The changes take place as you go about your day.


Take action today. 
Start making the changes today. 
The sooner you start the better. 
Don't put your success and happiness off anymore. 
Don't fall for the old programming that leads to more failure. 
Stretch yourself and create the relationship you deserve to achieve the goals you want to accomplish by starting today.


I look forward to connecting with you soon.

Time flies when your focused...

Wow... time sure does fly... it seems like it was January just yesterday.

Every year we all set certain goals and hopefully you were able to accomplish them.  I know there are all kinds of reasons for not achieving some of those goals... but really those "reasons" are poor excuses that your mind and subconscious mind have been conditioned to accept.

Your mind and subconscious mind are trained or conditioned to live the life you're currently living.

You may want to change, you may even try to change, but you fall into the same pattern of living because that's what your mind and subconscious mind are used to doing.  Your subconscious is really the engine that drives you - it's what makes things happen in your life. 

Your subconscious gets its instructions from the conscious mind. 
Those instructions are what you think and believe. You then take actions that reflect those thoughts - because that's what the subconscious mind thinks you want, so it compels you to take the actions that reflect your thoughts and beliefs. 

You will create what you think and believe.

So while you may want to change your life, your subconscious is used to following the old instructions, or your old thoughts and beliefs - until you change those - nothing will change It's really that simple.

What can you do?

Change the instructions. 
Change the messages you send your subconscious mind. 
Change your thoughts. 
Change your beliefs.

You'll then change your actions and start living the life you want. 

So far this has been a busy but productive year, but then again I say that every year throughout the year, that's just my attitude.  Have there been setbacks? Sure there has been!  But we are capable of overcoming all those setbacks and achieving magnificent things in our lifetime.

Now that half the year is over it's a good time to take a moment to reflect and be thankful for all those terrific things that have happened so far.

You may not be having a terrific year, but that's only because you're looking at what went wrong so far or what isn't working out.  Think about all the great things that happened, the people you met, the work you did, the changes that took place and the opportunities that arrived.

There are opportunities everywhere.

When you think about the positive things that happened and when you're thankful for those positive events, you attract more positive events and people into your life.

Focus on the negative things and you'll attract more of negative situations.

I know you want to enjoy a better life so start by being thankful of all the wonderful things that took place during the year.

Don't focus on the negative events or the setbacks. Know and believe that you will overcome those and achieve greater things in life - if that's what you focus on.

Your mind and subconscious mind are capable of doing and achieving wonderful things - all you have to do is direct them the right way. 

No matter what your situation, there are some positive and wonderful aspects... you just have to see them. Once you do that you begin to push your mind and subconscious mind toward creating a more positive and enriching life.

You may not be able to do this everyday, but if you can do it at least twice a week during the next year... you too will have a spectacular year.

Each night I give thanks for all the wonderful things in my life... 
and each day I wake up blessed with more wonderful things... 
I see them... and they arrive... you too can do the same... start today.

Remember... once you get your mind and subconscious mind working to create what you want... life will become easy, meaningful, and you'll enjoy tremendous success.

I hope you're having a terrific summer – now stretch yourself and make the rest of 2011 your best...

Remember if you don't do anything - if you don't change the way your mind works and direct your subconscious mind to create the life you want - everything stays the same - nothing changes.

This is your life - make the most of it – stretch yourself and create the relationships you deserve

Starting Now 

I look forward to connecting with you soon.

You Were Born To Succeed

You were born to succeed

You were born with all the tools to succeed and enjoy a wonderful life.

You were born with all the potential to succeed, you can achieve any goal you want... or can you?

You may not think or believe that you can achieve your goals and have a better life.

When you were born you had no negative thoughts.
No Limiting Beliefs.
No self doubts.
You could do anything.

But on your journey through life, you stopped believing that.
You started to doubt yourself.
You started to let negative thoughts fill your mind.

Maybe somebody told you that you can't succeed or that life is hard and you believed them. Maybe you received a lot of rejection and succumbed to believing that you can’t achieve something

You started to develop limiting beliefs and you began to think you no longer have the potential to succeed.

You may even believe that you were not born to succeed, or worse, that you were born to suffer.

The truth is you still have all that potential, you've just buried it, you've dismissed it and you've let negative thinking, limiting beliefs and self doubt convince you that you can't or won't succeed.

So how do you unlock the potential that you were born with?

How do you turn things around and succeed?

Start by changing the way you see yourself, or changing what you think about yourself.

If you feel that you can't succeed, that you'll only fail, and that no matter what you do things won't bet better... then change this thought pattern.

Dismiss it.

Don't accept those thoughts.

None of it is true.

No matter how bleak things may seem you can and will succeed because you were born to succeed.

Tell yourself that if you like, say it out loud:
I was born to succeed.

Say it again, only this time with a slight change:
I am born to succeed.

You are born to succeed.

When you think of past failures, or if you think you'll only fail again, change those thoughts. Think of the times you did succeed. Go back as far as you have to.

Your mind will tell you things like: "Yeah but that was then, you can't succeed now.
Who are you kidding? You can't do that. There's no way."

If that happens, change those thoughts.

Stretch your mind to find ways to succeed.
Tell yourself, this time I'm doing things differently.
Give yourself reasons to succeed.
Create affirmations that will help you succeed.
Then take action towards those goals to create momentum towards your success.

The only reason your mind comes up with these excuses for not succeeding is because
that's what it's used to doing.

Over the years you've developed a pattern of thinking and a set of beliefs that have created your current outlook and your current life.

If you keep the same thought patterns and the same beliefs you'll always have the same life - I guarantee it. Nothing will change... and that's not good enough!

But if you change your thoughts, change your beliefs, change your outlook, and have continual action you will change your life - and I can guarantee that as well.

You see your subconscious follows your current thoughts and beliefs like a roadmap.

If you think you're going to fail or that life is difficult, your subconscious simply says: you want failure, I'll make sure you get more.

So change what's in your subconscious, give it a new road map and you'll get new results.

But first you have to decide what that map is going to look like.
You have to know what you want, then you can create the thoughts, beliefs, outlook and actions that will help you succeed.
When you do that on a regular basis you'll be living up to your full potential.

You'll begin succeeding because that's what you were born to do.

So don't believe the naysayer in your head.
Believe in yourself and your ability.
You are born to succeed.
You have all the ability to achieve your goals and live your dreams.

You can succeed at anything... now believe in yourself... your destiny has yet to be written... make it the life you want now.

Remember if you don't do anything - if you don't change the way your mind works and direct your subconscious mind to create the life you want - everything stays the same - nothing changes.

This is your life - make the most of it - begin  working with the power of your mind and subconscious mind to create the life you want. I look forward to connecting with you soon.

Yes You CAN!

Wow! It's the beginning of February... one month already behind us...

It sure does seem like time is flying... but if you're working toward any particular goals you may think that things aren't changing fast enough...

Let's face it... we all would love to have accomplished our goals yesterday.

If you want to make more money, you probably would like to be a millionaire already.
If you're looking for a new job, you likely wish that you had found it already.
If you want to meet that special someone, I'm sure you would like to be in that relationship already.

It would be great if we could simply think of a goal, snap our fingers and in an instant we achieve it. Or like in the movie, Matrix, just swallow the red pill and in an instant we are living in our accomplishments.

I know there are some who say, that's all you need to do... think about it and it will happen.

Well, that's not the way it really works.

Once you think of your goal you have to train your mind and subconscious mind to help you create or achieve it.

That means giving it the right direction.

The first step is to believe that you have already achieved your particular goal. Begin with the end in mind.

Now that may sound a little complicated... after all how can you believe that you've achieved something that hasn't happened yet?

But that's exactly what you have to do.

If you want to achieve your goals sooner (and I know you do) then you need to think, act and live as though you've already succeeded.

Make this the Year You Achieve Your Goals

Your subconscious mind will do and create anything that you want... all you have to do is give it the right instructions.

Unfortunately that's where most people go wrong.

They focus on what they don't want, what is wrong in their life, what is not working out.

They don't realize it... but they're telling their subconscious mind to create more of what they don't want.

Confused? Don't be. It’s very simple

You see, your subconscious mind follows your instructions. Those instructions are what you regularly focus on and think about.

Think about what's wrong with your life, and you'll get more of the same.
Think about how you can't do something... and you'll encounter setbacks or barriers that prevent you from succeeding.

Think about how you can achieve your goals, why you achieve them, and take action towards achieving your goals and you'll begin to create momentum towards achieving those goals.

It's really that simple.

Your subconscious mind will help you and once you change the way you think, and change those beliefs... because you'll begin to change your actions so that you achieve your goals.

The first month of 2010 is over... and if you're about to give up on your goals (or if you already have) don't... instead get your mind and subconscious mind working for you to help you achieve those goals.

Most people give up too early because they get caught up in why they can't achieve a goal.

Let's face it... we've been told more often that we can't achieve a goal... and few will ever tell you - "yeah, you can do that... yes you can."

The truth is you can do anything you want.
You are a powerful human being capable of achieving terrific goals.
Think of why you can achieve your goals.
Focus on how you can achieve your goals.

Believe that you already have achieved your greatest goals - carry the feeling of success... it's in you.
Everything you want and yearn for is possible... otherwise you wouldn't be thinking of it.
Start thinking put your first steps towards achieving that goal, creating momentum and the right people, situations and circumstances will happen to help you succeed.

YOU have to take action and start NOW.

Your subconscious mind can and will help you succeed - just give it the right information - change it from your worst critic, your backseat driver, your armchair quarterback, to your best supporter.

This is a great year.
This is your best year ever.
You are destined to succeed.
You are more powerful than you realize.
You can do anything you want.
You can achieve all your goals and more...
You can be happy, abundant and successful ...

Remember -- you only get one life and one chance.
Make the most of it. Stop defeating yourself, stop limiting yourself.
Create all the success you want and deserve in life

STARTING NOW.

Success Begins Today!

January is almost over…WOW! ... Frankly I still can't believe that my calendar now says 2010...

With every New Year I always end up ripping a few checks simply because I forget to write the correct year... I already did it this year... putting in 2009 instead of 2010.

It will take a few times before I get it right and before my subconscious gets used to seeing, writing and reading 2010.

That's the way the subconscious works. When you want to remember something it takes a few tries before it gets the message. You have to repeatedly tell yourself: "No, not that... that's not what I want. I want to write 2010 (or what ever it is you really want).

The same approach is applied for our goals and changes that we want to make.

At first your subconscious doesn't quite get the message and automatically goes back to what is familiar. In my case it will be writing 2009 a few times before I get it right.

But with goals and changes that we want to make it could take more than a few days or a few weeks. That's because you've been doing things a certain way for longer than a year. In some cases you've been living a certain way, thinking a certain way and doing things that correspond with the way you live and think for years, possibly decades.

So getting the mind and subconscious mind to accept changes and attract situations that will help you succeed will take longer. And if you don't apply certain techniques, those changes could take decades or may never happen.

Why?

Because your mind and subconscious mind will revert back to what they know and what is comfortable with over and over again.

But if you take an active role, stretch yourself and apply the right techniques and get your mind and subconscious mind working for you - creating the changes you want - you'll enjoy success a lot sooner.

Now that we are four weeks into the New Year it's a great time to give yourself a fresh start, stretch yourself to achieve those goals and begin creating the life you want now.

It's not just about making a few resolutions that you may give up on in a few days or weeks.

This is about making a conscious commitment to create some real, lasting changes that will allow you to enjoy success in every area of your life.

If you want to get the right job - make this the year that it happens.
If you want to start or improve a business - make this the year that it comes together.
If you want to make more money - make this the year that you start generating more money.
If you to meet the right person - make this the year that you meet the man/woman of your dreams.

Focus on what you want.
Give your mind and subconscious mind the direction it needs - tell them the results you want and avoid focusing on the obstacles; only accept success.
Be willing to grow and learn.
Take action everyday to achieve your goals.
This is your life. It's a New Year and a chance for a fresh start - make this your best year ever.

So create beliefs that allow you to succeed.
Fill your mind up with positive thoughts.
Focus on your past and present success.

It doesn't matter if things haven't worked out in the past.
It doesn't matter if you haven't achieved all that you wanted.

You are at a new point in your life and starting today, you must decide right here and now to believe in yourself and believe that you can succeed... because the truth is you can do and be anything you want... but only if you believe in yourself.

Dismiss the negative thinking and limiting beliefs that say you can't.
Find out what your true values are… What do you REALLY Believe? What do you REALLY want?

Don't believe that you're no good - you're better than you think.
Fill your mind and subconscious mind with possibilities and positive messages everyday.

Let's make 2010 truly spectacular... and it starts today.
Take a moment to focus on all the positive things in your life.
Appreciate all the people in your life and all the people you meet everyday.
Remember -- you only get one life and one chance. Make the most of it.

Stop defeating yourself, stop limiting yourself. Create all the success in your life starting TODAY.