Choose Your Words...

Choose your words carefully... they can shape your life...especially if your subconscious mind picks up on these words (which it likely will)... they'll become your reality quicker than you realize.

Most people don't really pay attention to what they say when they're just making passing comments or off the cuff remarks. But they can have a significant impact on your life.

These are usually simple responses to what often seem like routine questions... like - "how are you" or "how are things going?" or "how's life treating you today?"... "how's work going?"...

We get asked these questions everyday... and over time we form routine responses. In many cases those routine responses will have no impact on how your life is shaped... but sometimes, those responses or other comments that seem to made in passing or in jest can have a significant impact on how your life turns out.

If you're one who complains a lot - you're likely to get more of what you complain about. Look for solutions and you'll find them.

Focus on the problem and you'll get more of the same.

Very simple.

But how do you go from complaining or focusing on problems to attracting what you want and improving or changing your life so that you achieve your goals?

Actually it's easier than you think and today I'm going to show you how to use your words to get more of what you want and less of what you don't want. So read on and I hope this message help you with your endeavors - enjoy.

Your words shape your life

Not every word you speak will manifest in reality.But those statements that you say repeatedly, that you begin to believe... begin to take hold in your subconscious mind will make a huge impact.

Recently I reacquainted myself with a friend who for the longest time always said: "Life is tough. You work all your life and you get nothing but pain and suffering in return."

That's basically what he said every time I saw him... and for a long time I used to see him everyday.

He's a nice guy, friendly, smart, down to earth, and has a great sense of humor.

But those words took their toll on him.

You see he believed what he said... it became part of his philosophy on life.

For years, those words showed no sign of having any impact. In fact, for a while, life was good... but he would still say those words.

And he would often expand; especially if you asked him... he could give you a long list of why life was hard... even when things were going well!

I just didn't get it. He did. And today - life is very hard for him.

He's had major health setbacks, can't function on his own, needs constant care and struggles financially. Life got hard... very hard.

Everyday I hope things get better for him.

But everyday - he keeps saying that same phrase: "Life is hard... you work all your life and you get nothing but pain and suffering in the end!"

Choose your words carefully... they could have a bigger impact than you realize...and it usually doesn't happen right away... it just sort of creeps up on you.

Do you know anybody who says something similar?

Maybe you're saying something like that everyday - and don't realize it.

Stop. Stop them and stop yourself.

Change what you're saying.

If you keep at it you'll destroy your life.

Why?

When you repeatedly say negative statements you begin to believe them. Over time this belief becomes stronger and stronger. When that happens your subconscious mind begins to look at that belief as an instruction. It says - that's what you want - so that's what you'll get. Your subconscious, following your instructions, simply goes out and creates your life based on your beliefs, regular thoughts, attitudes and actions.

If you believe that life is hard, you'll start doing things to make your life hard. And it will get harder.
Life isn't meant to be hard. Life should be fun and easy. Life is meant to be abundance. Put the joy back into your life. Stop saying negative things that will create more pain and sorrow.

Choose your words

Next time you're making a passing comment - choose your words.

Those comments that you make everyday - should be positive, filled with optimism and put a smile on
your face... it gets infectious.

I have many examples like my friend... I also have countless examples of people who choose their words carefully and continue to have a rewarding and happy life.

What else can you do?

Keep your thoughts focused on what you want, not what you don't want. Look for solutions to life's challenges. Make it a point to respond in a positive way - even if someone says something negative repeatedly.

As you do this those chronic negative thinkers that seem to drag you down will fade away. They just don't want to be around people who are constantly positive.

Your words (those casual comments and remarks) are a reflection of your thoughts.
Your thoughts are a reflection of your beliefs.
Your beliefs are what your subconscious mind picks up on and creates.
Believe that life is hard and life will get hard.
Believe that things can never get better and they'll continue to get worse.

Watch your words.
Watch your thoughts.
Change those that don't work for you.
Eliminate those that are negative or pessimistic.

Keep yourself focused on what you want.
Believe in yourself.
You can live a better life.
You can achieve your goals.
Choose your words carefully.
Spread positive messages and keep smiling.
Believe that things can and will get better.
Spread the positive message everyday and you'll enjoy a better life (at least it won't get worse).

Remember -- You only get one life and one chance.
Make the most of it.
Stop defeating yourself, stop limiting yourself.
Create all the success you want and deserve in life. Starting Now.

Thanks and I look forward to connecting with you soon