Monday, March 22, 2010

Increasing Confidence

Having confidence can really make a huge difference.

Those who have great confidence get more done, because they believe in themselves... and they believe in their ability.

They know they're going to say the right thing and do the right thing...
and if by chance they slip up... they know they can overcome any setback.

That's confidence.

And you can have the same level of confidence as the most confident
person you know. The only reason why you may not have the confidence you want is because you focus on the wrong things.

Over the years I've been able to study and work with some of the most confident people and some of the not so confident.

I've discovered that those who are confident just seem to think differently.
They see things differently and they focus on different things.

Confident people focus on their strengths, not their weaknesses or limitations. They work on those weaknesses and limitations so that they don't have an impact on their life.

But they focus on their strengths. They think of how and why they can do something.

In social settings they'll focus on saying and doing the right things.
They'll talk about what they know - not what they don't know.
They believe that they can be comfortable in just about any situation.
And the reason they believe this is because they have a thought process
that allows them to exude confidence all the time.

Now you can have that same level of confidence.

First start by focusing on your strengths, not your weaknesses.
Then focus on your positive qualities, think of all the reasons why you can
do something and why people should trust you and like you.

Improve in the areas where you feel you have limitations and work on
being better at those things you're not so good at.
Change the way you see yourself and others will see the change in you.

Be positive and focus on why you can.
Feed your mind and subconscious mind positive statements that will
help you increase your confidence and self-esteem.

Remember...
Focus on your strengths.
Focus on your positive qualities - I suggest you put a list together of your positive qualities and read it every day.
Change the way you see yourself - you're capable of doing extraordinary things if only you stretch yourself out of your comfort zone.

Increasing your confidence is something you can do quickly and easily.
Think about how you can make a difference and focus on saying and
doing the right things in all situations.

Starting today...
Right now start thinking about all your positive qualities.
Think about what a wonderful person you are... walk with that bounce in your step, that swagger in your walk...
Believe in yourself and believe in your abilities... you are a powerful human being capable of achieving magnificent things...

So Stretch yourself! Starting today
Thanks and I look forward to connecting with you soon.

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