Stretch Rules For Relationships

Number 1.  Get along with yourself.

Do I need to explain any more?

Hurting people hurt people.  Hurting people are hurt by people.

Get along with yourself

Get your act together and love yourself first, because if your act is not together you are going to have relationship problems all your life.

People who can’t get along with themselves can’t get along with anyone else, so learn to get along with yourself.  Learn self love.

Think about it this way…You spend more time with yourself than anyone else.  THERE is a deep thought.  So don’t you think the number one relationship you should work on is YOU!

I find often when people don’t have time for themselves and don’t have their act together, they’ll change jobs, they move to different places, they’ll do everything they possibly can and they’ll never be able to solve their problems, they only way they be able to solve their problem is to get away with themselves

So learn to get along with yourself

That is the number one rule to stretching yourself

That is more important that anything that I can teach you because if you learn to get along with yourself all of the sudden people around will be easy to get along with.

Number 2.  Value people

The second relationship rule is very simple, value people

Valuing people with keep you from manipulating people

You cannot make another people feel important if you secretly feel that he or she is no one.

Number 3.  Make the effort to form relationships

We are talking mostly about energy and relationships take a lot of energy and lot of times people don’t have relationships because that don’t initiate energy to attract that particular relationship in their life.

The result of a people who has never served others…loneliness.

The result of a people who has never learned to served others…..

When I was in the military they taught us to dig foxholes and they told us when you dig a foxhole make sure there is enough room for two because when your in the heat of things you will need a buddy to watch your back.

Number 4.  Understand the reciprocity rule

Over time people come to share reciprocally similar attitudes towards each other.

Simply if you have a good attitude toward people and you maintain a genuine good attitude towards people eventually they’ll have a good attitude towards you.  If you have a bad attitude towards people reciprocally it will come back to you the same way you put it out.

Number 5.  Follow the Golden Rule

It’s that simple:  Just DO UNTO OTHERS AS YOU WOULD HAVE THEM DO UNTO YOU

If everyone makes decisions based on the golden rule, you would make great decisions not only for ourselves but for each other.

Here what I know about relationships that I have formed for me

My relationships have added value to me and made me a much better person than I could have ever been without them.

The relationships I have I believe are God’s gift to me.  Many of these relationships I have never tried to earn or never tried to work on, they just came to me and I have always been grateful.

And these relationships give me my greatest joy.

And it is with gratitude that I bring to these relationships something of value, something to help, something to assist, and something to benefit each and every one of the people that I have a relationship with.

If you never sway from these Stretch Rules, you will experience and fulfilling and abundant life.

I look forward to connecting with you soon.